Metropolitan Counseling Associates

SPACE Therapy Outline

The below outline provides a general overview of a typical  SPACE therapy over the course of about 10–12 weeks. The actual course of treatment is adapted based on your family’s needs.


Session 1: Introduction & Assessment

  • Discuss presenting concerns and goals

  • Review the SPACE model and how parent-only therapy works

  • Begin identifying accommodations and anxiety cycles

Session 2: Understanding Accommodation

  • Map out the specific ways the family may be accommodating the child’s anxiety

  • Explore how accommodations are well-intentioned but reinforce avoidance

  • Begin tracking daily patterns

Session 3: Setting Goals

  • Identify one or two target accommodations to gradually reduce

  • Clarify the child’s typical reactions to accommodation changes

  • Introduce support statements and validate the parenting role

Session 4: Planning the Intervention

  • Develop a step-by-step plan to reduce the first accommodation

  • Prepare supportive responses for resistance or distress

  • Rehearse how to respond calmly and consistently

Sessions 5–7: Implementation & Troubleshooting

  • Begin reducing selected accommodations

  • Review weekly progress and parent experiences

  • Problem-solve setbacks, emotional reactions, or escalations

  • Adjust strategies as needed

Session 8: Addressing Parental Emotions

  • Explore how the child’s anxiety affects the parent emotionally

  • Support parents in tolerating their own distress during the change process

  • Reinforce supportive, non-accommodating responses

Sessions 9–10: Adding New Targets

  • Identify a second accommodation to reduce, if appropriate

  • Review success from previous change

  • Encourage consistency and long-term mindset

Sessions 11–12: Consolidation & Maintenance

  • Review progress and celebrate wins

  • Discuss relapse prevention and what to do when setbacks occur

  • Develop a long-term support plan

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